Who am I? I’m Harry Laurent!

Hi guys, and welcome to my section of the Dating Dragons page. Its an honor to have you hear, reading my articles.

I live between Sydney and New York where I used to run a business advising men on the pearls of dating. Over time, I began to realize that the need for other men around the world to understand dating and women was so much bigger than the small cohort of people I was helping. Afterall, there are plenty of fish in the sea! I’ve already written many articles which I will post on here, from my days advising some of what I would call, the best dating gurus in the business. What you need to realise is it doesn’t matter if you’re shy, tall, fat, muscly, tough, or you think you already know it all when it comes to women – I have helped most types of men.

One of my favorite stories is of my friend Steve. Steve is definitely the better looking out of the two of us. In school he was successful with the girls – he played lacrosse, and was even in the school band. He was dating probably one of the hottest girls in school (for 3 years). When he finished school, his girlfriend dumped him when they split to go to separate colleges. Well, his success with women all changed when he left school and hit college. In the past, I used to think that because of his good looks and paper perfect rating, he would breeze through the dating scene, whilst I was stuck to pick up the dregs and attempt to even get a few dates! Needless to say, I never got many dates at school. In college, the girls did not pay Steve much attention. And he was never the type of guy to approach a girl. Over the next 2 years, I studied the art of dating closely. I gained some very valuable insight from a female friend of mine who became my observing companion during parties and the like. And over this period, I started writing. At first, I only noticed a few things, like a few body language hints, or a few phrases or traits in successful men, but then after a while, I became used to picking up on the very reasons why some men are successful with dating attractive women and some are not.

And this leads me back to Steve. He was studying Arts with a major in Roman Literature, when I noticed that at parties, he would sit on the couch talking to his Lacrosse buddies and I would be out talking to the attractive women. Because we went to the same college, it was easy to keep tabs on each other’s successes. His room was just down the hall. As I wrote, I noticed more and more. One day, after discussing a girl I had met at the party the night before, he disclaimed that he had no idea how I was being so successful, especially since he was the one that had all the “luck” with the girls in school.

One day, after I had finished another story of a great night out with a girl, Emily, I saw his shoulders droop. He was depressed! I couldn’t believe it. Here was this guy, who I used to idolize as someone who had it made when it came to the ladies, envying me! I showed him my diary with my scribbles (now articles ) on them, and his eyes widened. Many of my articles stemmed from me observing him. He was, after all, very good looking and had all the attributes I thought were essential to be successful with dating. He spent the next week pouring over my articles, and at the end of the week, he just shook his head and said to me: “Harry, I never knew there was this much to see in dating…” and he then vowed to change the way he approached women.

In the next 3 months, what I saw was remarkable. Steven turned from a Grey Man (Someone who is never noticed) to the life of the college. His “transformation” was amazing. He turned into some kind of dating machine! He was dating 4 nights a week, and the other 3 nights, he was at Lacrosse training! I saw much less of him over that 3 months period then ever before. After 6 months or so, he met a girl called Stephanie, who he ended up engaged, and then married to.
Harry Laurent

So what is the purpose of this story? Well, even good looking, successful guys need help. Through the 15 or so years that I have been observing these things, I can safely say, that the tips and tricks that I can give you here will help you in the future. I current advise full time on dating matters (I was told that I was something like the inspiration to the movie – Hitch), and spend half my time in New York, and half my time in Sydney, Australia. You can sometimes find me sitting at my favorite coffee shops, with my laptop, answering emails or writing new articles.

Dating Dragons has a new forum board, which I have my very own section in. Please talk to me through the forum as a service to other men! Or leave comments on my articles. I am always happy to help you understand parts of my articles or talk to you about things that likely, many men would have been thinking?

Want an edge? You can always subscribe to the Dating Dragons mailing list, where my tips and tricks extend beyond what is on this blog. My e-book will be officially launched on this site in the near future. It has many revisions on it to help you with the modern dating scene.

I’ve spent many hours, days, weeks, months, years constructing the information you will read on this site. Its yours to use, and yours to pass onto your friends and family.

As always, Happy Hunting!

Harry Laurent

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