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The Truth About Attracting Beautiful Women
The reality is that men, no matter how good looking they are, rarely get approached by women.
Beautiful women on the other hand, are approached by men numerous times. Like with anything that happens all the time, they get bored. Hot girls know they are hot- they have people telling them that all the time. To make their life easier they have little plans to avoid having to waste their time with every guy who comes up to them to tell them they are beautiful. They tell you they are attached, are really busy with work or aren’t allowing themselves to see anyone right now. Effectively they are telling you to ‘piss off’ in a nice way. So why do they do this? Well, most guys will do one of two things when they approach a beautiful woman. To hide their nervousness most men will: 1. Compliment her on her looks 2. Bribe her Let me describe these in a little more detail. 1. Compliments Most men will open up their conversation with a beautiful woman by telling her how hot she is. She already knows this so why waste your time to look like every other guy. Hot women know they are hot, so what they crave is appreciation of them as a person.
Why do they do this?
Well, 99% of guys are too scared/ nervous/ excited to approach a beautiful woman, so what do they do? Most of the time they just stare at her across the room, unconsciously drooling while fantasizing about her in their head. This makes her feel like a piece of meat and think all guys are superficial. So when she sees you staring then muster the guts to approach her and all you can do is tell her how beautiful she is you quickly get placed into the category of being just another guy who wants to get into her pants. Compliments do work with beautiful women, but there is a special art to the compliment. That is the topic for another article. 2. Bribery Attractive women make most men feel nervous and inadequate. So what do we do? We try to bribe them into talking to us. Typically a guy will see a beautiful girl, approach her, tell her how beautiful she is and then straight away ask her if he can buy her a drink. True, if she says ‘yes’ then this will buy you more time to prove yourself but the reality is that most women see it as bribery and will reject your offer. This is because if she allows you to buy her a drink, she feels she will owe you something in return, a problem she would rather not have to deal with. To attract and date beautiful women keep these thoughts in mind. Hot girls know they are hot and you need to have a strategy that will put you above the losers.
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Unfortunately, that is how the net dating world is…it’s at times like searching for a needle in a haystack. See having one of your (female) acquaintances looking at your profile, leaving some advice on what you could do to attract those you are interested in meeting. And perhaps too, you should ease up on your standards a bit (at least when it comes to body type. But perhaps you don’t have the “goods” to get your dreaming girl. It’s not all about looks or success, though that can help. Mostly it’s attitude to attract women. At a guess I would say you reek of desperation, even though you don’t realise it.