Compilation Of best Foreplay Tips

OK, so you’re baffled by what to do with Foreplay. How about you just read what’s online? Don’t have time. Neither do most people. Luckily I do! Read here for the 3 best web articles on foreplay. I particularly like the last one.

Enjoy!

Foreplay is an essential ingredient of a satisfying sexual relationship.

Women in particular like lots of foreplay to help them achieve orgasm and of course men love it to.

Here are ten tips to help you get more from foreplay and drive your partner wild with passion.

1. Don’t Forget To Kiss

90% of women in a recent poll said they liked to kiss more, so make sure that you kiss your partner and do it with passion.

The basics of kissing your partner are explained fully in our other articles, but the trick is:

To relax, use variety follow your partner, use your body and do it with passion.

Kissing is one of the best ways to show love and desire and is deeply personal, so make sure you do it correctly.

2. Target The Neck

If you want to target one erogenous zone to make your partner moan with ecstasy, it’s the neck.

It’s guaranteed to make any women melt and feel hot and sexy.

Make sure you lick, kiss and nibble it.

3. Target ALL The Erogenous Zones

We all know the obvious erogenous zones, but make sure you target them all.

Great erogenous zones include:

The back, and pay particular attention to the buttocks.

Most women have reservations about their bottom so show her how much you love it. Stroke it, kiss it and tell her how beautiful it is.

Other great erogenous zones include:

The ears – An incredible amount of nerve endings are situated here.

The feet – Reflexology targets the feet due to the connection they have to the rest of the body.
Make sure you take time to massage and kiss them, it’s a great way to relax your and turn your partner on.

The backs of the knees – Not really thought of as an erogenous zone, but an incredible amount of nerve endings are situated here.

The Inner thighs – Are highly sensitive and a great tease as your partner will wonder where your hands and lips will wander to next.

4. Oral Sex

There is not enough room here to cover all the ways to turn your women on with oral sex (see our other articles) but one thing is a must:

Communication – Many women complain that their partners do not do oral sex correctly.

So communication is a must, ask her exactly how she likes it and follow here lead.

Many women become very self conscious and think their partners are simply doing it to please them.

Show them you are enjoying it and they will relax and enjoy the experience even more.

5. Use Massage

Many women need to be relaxed to enjoy sex and get ready for full intercourse so add some sensuous oils into foreplay and pay attention to the back shoulders and the feet.

6. Set The Mood

Relax before hand and show you have made an effort.

Take her to dinner or make sure you have champagne on ice show your partner you care love and desire them.

For women sex is not purely a physical act, it’s a mental experience so show your partner how much you care.

7. Tease

Foreplay should be fun and not finish too soon.

Practice bringing your partners desire up and then moving away from the area targeted, tease her until she can take no more.

This will heighten the expectation and make full sex much more fulfilling when it comes.

8. Communicate

You need to explore your partner’s inner desires and try and please them. Many couples are reluctant to talk about sex but your both adults and you need to do so.

Don’t rely on trial and error, make sure you talk frankly and openly.

9. Try Something New

Don’t go through the same routine every time!

Sex will get boring add some different aspects and experiment.

This may mean introducing toys, food or whatever else you can think of.

Nothing kills a relationship more than predictability and boredom.

10. After Sex

Don’t just walk out – take time to tell your partner how much you enjoyed the experience.

Kiss cuddle and tell her how wonderful it was – Make your partner feel wanted.

Courtesy of Ezine

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1- Talk and tease

During foreplay, the power of suggestion (especially with some dirty talk) can be as great as the sex itself for many women. If you can describe how you want to touch her, where, and with which of your body parts, she’ll visualize it easily and eagerly. And if you know how to have sex with her brain (it is a major sexual organ), you can bet that she’ll be begging you to have sex with the rest of her in due time.

If you need to touch her while you dirty talk her during foreplay, avoid touching her breasts and vagina. Instead, focus your mouth and hands on her neck, wrists, inner thighs, lower back, and ears.

2- Get started in public

Foreplay doesn’t need to be restricted to the bedroom or inside four walls. If you and your girlfriend don’t start crying at the thought of public displays of affection (PDA), try doing some fun things out in the open. And by fun things, I mean such things as rubbing her breasts or respectfully patting her ass in a restaurant, kissing her passionately while having drinks at a bar or dirty dancing at a nightclub. Make an effort to turn her on wherever you are.

If you show her that she turns you on via PDA, when you finally do find yourselves in a private situation, the good times will lead to some carnal indulgences.

3- Strip down

Strip shows aren’t just for men anymore; women have gotten wise to the idea of having men perform a peel dance for them. While I don’t suggest you dance for her as you take off your socks or install a pole in your bedroom, I do recommend that you remove your clothes slowly (especially if you’re fit). Remove your socks before you do anything; they’re awkward and nothing turns a woman off faster than seeing a naked man with his socks on. Now that you’re set to go, start by removing your shirt (unbutton it slowly while maintaining eye contact), then your pants, and finally your underwear.

At this point, undress her just as slowly. Sit her down and remove her clothing in the same order you removed yours.

4- Use your fingers and give her oral pleasure

Once again, I have to say that every woman is different and, therefore, every woman likes to be touched differently. However, the same techniques that you hopefully used in high school are still effective in the majority of women. Bring your hand to her vaginal area and, with the tips of your fingers, rub her outer lips (labia majora) by spreading them apart and bringing them back together; that should start the lubrication process.

When she spreads her legs a bit, that’s a clear indication that she wants you to touch her a little deeper. At this point, you can start lightly rubbing her inner lips (labia minora), and then move up to her clitoris, which you should rub in a circular motion. Some women like their clitoris to be touched gently, while others prefer a more vigorous contact; read your girlfriend’s body language for a sign of what you should do.

After a few minutes, bring your mouth to the area and, while you continue to use your fingers to play around inside her, suckle her clitoris to give her some great oral pleasure.

5- Watch some sex and kiss her

Porn can be a great way to get you and your girl in the mood, provided that your girlfriend is the type who enjoys adult entertainment. Put on something that both of you can enjoy (preferably other couples having sex and something tailored to women), and lay naked with each other while you watch it. Remember that an “accidental” caress here and there is perfectly acceptable, even preferable.

Every now and then, stop watching the movie and kiss her or play with her body. Make sure to pay more attention to her than you do to the movie. As well, if you see something kinky that you’d like to try, make a comment about it and gauge her response, which will give you an indication of whether or not she’s game. The idea here is to get her imagination going.

Courtesy of Askmen.com

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Discover 30 of the word’s best tips..

India : Home of the Kama Sutra

1. The small of a woman’s back really is very sensitive. It’s even mentioned in the Kama Sutra. Take the time to gently kiss this area.

2. The lower lip is supposed to be connected to the clittoris. Gentlemen – get sucking!

3. A man’s Perinuem (the spot between the Testes and Anus) is referred to as the ‘Sacred Spot’. Use gentle and rythmic pressure on this spot to increase his arousal.

4. Hands on a woman – are an important erogenous zone in their own right! Start by kissing her hand, the fingers and her palm, and then slowly suck on one of her fingers. We think the pinky works best!

5. The triangular patch of skin on the underside of the penis head is incredibly sensitive to touch. Rubbing this area with the hand, or tongue will create great sensations.

USA

6. Don’f forget to kiss her neck, as well as the back of the neck. Start with the back of the neck, and then turn and face your woman, and kiss the sides of the neck. The sides of the neck are more sensitve so it’s best to work your way slowly there.

7. The inner thighs – for both sexes, are very sensitive. A great place to rub gently, kiss slowly or nibble.

8. Some of us are blessed with incrediblly sensitive ears – so make the most of this! Don’t chew or knaw – just start by gently sucking on them, followed by a gentle nibble.

Canada

9. A litte ice on a nipple – never hurt anyone! Give him or her (especially her) a variation on the suck and slobber. Gently rub some ice over the nipple for a few minutes, and then apply your hot warm mouth over the cold errect nipple. Lovely.

10. The slippery slide effect. Get hot warm oil over naked partner and gently rub self over the body. This works best if the slide is slooowww…and luxurious

11. Keep some clothes on! This may seem a bit strange, but leaving a few clothes on (until the very very…very end) can make the sensations more relaxing and sensual and the excitment just powerfull!

France

12. Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot. Take a few sips of some warm liquid.., and then place mouth over his or her nether regions, to give an amazingly warm sensation.

13. Don’t forget the boys! Many women over look the Scrotum – as it seems to be overshadowed by a whopping errection. Apply firm yet gentle finger tip pressure (in circles) now and again, and especially just before take off.

Italy

14. Women love having their breasts massaged – and it never ceases to amaze me how often men forget about this. Before rushing to suck and slobber, stop and pay homage to the lovely beauties, by gently massaging for atleast 10 minutes.

16. Male chests have feelings too! A gentle layering of kisses and nibbles will always be appreciated

Thailand

17. Men – if you’re worried about lasting the night – a bit of garlic, chilli and ginseng should do the trick.

18. Smell heightens the senses! And that means more pleasure and arousal. After bathing, apply small drops of perfume/cologne to the following areas: behind the ears, sides of the belly, tailbone, and behind the knees. Don’t ask me why – but it’s supposed to work.

Greece

19. Men – relieve yourself before hand, if you’re worried about premature take off. You will be less stressed, more aroused, and will last much longer.

20. When going down on a woman – don’t forget the neighbours! Do not lunge straight for the clittoris, it looks very amateurish. Gently lick and nibble the lips, the pubic mound, and inner thighs. Wait atleast 15 minutes before approaching her clit.

21. The skin underneath a woman’s breast is very sensitive to a loving kiss and nibble.

Morroco

22. Kissing a woman’s back – from the neck down – is send to stir up wild passions!

23. Men should drink a glass of warm milk before a long night. This is said to increase stamina.

24. Women allow your hair to flow over his body and manhood as you kiss and work your way down. This creates a tingling sensual experience.

South Africa

25. Suck the tip of the tongue. This is a very sensitive area. Best done in between gentle warm up kissing.

26. Ask her to ride your fingers. This has the effect of loosening a woman’s body, and is a great turn on!

27. Kiss his or her eyelids – of course very gently! This is very soothing, and relaxing.

Mexico

28. Nibble and suck on her toes – to heighten clittoral sensations

29. Place hands around penis and move slowly up and down the shaft, and finish off with a gentle massage of the head.

UK

30. Massage him or her …with or without oil..  This relaxes the body, heightens sensitivity and arousal, and is of course very pleasureable : )

Courtesy of  erotic-massage-guide.com

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