How To Ask A Girl Out

Today we will discuss the age old question: how to ask a girl out on a date. Don’t get stuck being the one who dreams of asking a girl out but can never complete the task. Sure, there are many ways to do this, but I would just like to point out a few things.

Timing: Getting your timing right in every part of dating a girl is never more important than when asking a girl out. Try not to ask a girl out when she is preoccupied or busy with something – you are seriously reducing your chances. Ask her when she is happy, and free. A good time would be when you’ve just told a good joke, or when you both have had a laugh at something. Studies show that a persons mind is far more receptive to suggestion when they have just had a laugh. Use this fact to your advantage.

Preparation: Some guys go to huge lengths to prepare for asking a girl out. Unforutunately this isn’t the best thing to do in the long term. Sure there may be a few couples out there with romantic stories of how they met, or how a girl was asked out – but I know that they are just one in a thousand. If you follow this thought, you will be so scared and pressured when asking a girl out, that she will think you are crazy! Don’t ask her out with sky writing or on the megascreen at the superbowl – save those for later!

What to say: So what should you say when asking a girl out on a date? Of course, as I link to in many of my other articles, being confident is the key. You do not need to have a silver tongue to ask a girl out on a date. Make sure that you don’t stutter, and that you can ask her out with confidence and that will make you 50% more successful for a start. Tell yourself that she is lucky to be asked out by someone like you. This will flow on to the way you ask her out.

Dealing with rejection: I’ve already touched on this in previous articles, but keep in mind that you will NEVER have a 100% record. You will never even have 50%. If you got a date 25% of the time you asked a girl out, you are already doing well. Keep that in mind for later down the track, as you can never let a rejection put you down. Some of the most successful guys are the ones that just keep trying and trying. And never back down to a different standard to what you’re looking for. ie: Just because you didn’t get the 9/10 stunner at the bar doesn’t mean you have to have 10 drinks and pick up the 3/10 she-male standing next to her at 5am in the morning. Keep you head up.

OK, so you’re probably wondering why I haven’t given you some lines or some ideas of how to pick up, but that’s the point. Asking a girl out on a date shouldn’t be about fancy lines and locations. Its all about your attitute, and mental preparation. A girl will say YES if you project to her that you are worth going out with.

If you have any questions, ask me on the forum at www.datingdragons.com/forums or comment to me here.

Happy Hunting

Harry Laurent

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