10 Reasons Why Men Fail With Women

How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

Have you ever observed that the really hot women never seem to gravitate to the “nice” guys? Of course you have. Just like I have, I’m sure you’ve had hot female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple…Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They decide to date them based on a deep, intense, GUT FEELING. And do you know what? As much as being nice seems to be the right thing to do, it doesn’t give women that powerful feeling of attraction. And women will not CHOOSE you. I understand that this seems counter-intuitive and might be hard to accept, but seriously – LISTEN TO ME! Until you accept this as a reality and start acting on it, you’ll never be the Don Juan with women you wanted to be.

Have a think about situations where you’ve heard or seen a guy that REALLY likes a woman. And you can see that she’s just not interested. What do they do? They try to convince the women and change their mind. Well, here’s the secret – You can NEVER change how a women FEELS when it boils down to attraction. Absolutely NEVER. Its impossible to convince a women to feel differently using your well honed logic and reasoning skills. Feelings are never logical, and your arguments will fall by the roadside. But unfortunately, we all do it. This is a situation, where unfortunately it won’t work. When you know you’re beaten, move on – don’t waste anymore time. Trying to wear a woman down will be unsatisfying for both parties.

In our quest to please women (which we wrongly think will make them like us), us men are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”. Another TERRIBLE idea. Women are NEVER attracted to the types of guys who kiss up to them… EVER. Don’t misunderstand me here. You shouldn’t treat a woman POORLY (ie treat them mean keep them keen) to make her like you. But if you believe that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again. Women actually get PISSED OFF at men who seek their approval. Its another of these dominance things. Don’t believe me? Just ask any attractive woman if soft guys who chase them around and want their approval are sexy…

So many times have men taken their dates out for a nice dinner, bought them jelly beans and given her flowers at the door, only to have them REJECT them for someone who in their eyes treat them far worse. If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT. Well guess what? It’s only HUMAN NATURE when this happens…That’s right, I said HUMAN NATURE. When you do these things, you send a clear signal: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”. Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

Men should never share how they “feel” too early in the relationship. Although there are meny attractive women, each of them would get approached many times a day, and receive LOTS of attention from men. A hot woman probably gets approached SEVERAL TIMES A DAY by men who are interested. This translates into multiple times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men. That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And there is one thing that really turns hot women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves. Don’t do it. Sit back. Relax. There’s a much better way…

Women and men have very different factors when it comes to deciding ATTRACTION. You will need to accept this before you move on. Deal with it. When a man sees a sexy women, there is an immediate sexual attraction. But is this the same for women? OF COURSE NOT! After studying this topic for quite some time now, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER than looks. How many times have you seen attractive women with average or unattractive men? Now think of the times you’ve seen this the other way around. Think about it Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communicate correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this. And ANY guy can learn how…

A common mistakes that guys make is throwing in the towel before they’ve even begun… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who spend their days at the gym. And sure, there will always be some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his pectorals or his pocketbook. There are some personality traits that attract women like bees to honey…And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU will be one of these guys. YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall, or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful, sexy young woman.

Earlier I eluded that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Well, another tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to attractive women. In a different way of thinking, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Another terrible idea…Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t attracted to SOFTIES!

Now I’m going to blow you away…A woman will ALWAYS know what you’re thinking. Women are about EIGHT TIMES better than men at reading body language. That’s eight TIMES. I know, it might be difficult to comprehend. Take this example: if you’re on a date with a woman, and you are thinking of kissing her, she will knows. And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting all nervous, she won’t help! She will LET you squirm. And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…Approaching a woman, getting her digits, asking her to dinner, kissing her, getting to 3rd base… everything. If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably stuff it up… and LOSE THE GAME. And you KNOW this. It is VERY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a beautiful girl… from the first meeting, all the way to the boudoir.

This is the mistake that keeps us guys from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. I know, men don’t like to make themselves look like we don’t have all the answers. We don’t want to ask for help. Hey, I’ve been right there myself. Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women…About eight years ago I became sick of the fact that I didn’t really know how to approach, meet, and obtain dates with women that I was attracted to. It frustrated the hell out of me. One night I was out with my friend, and I saw a beautiful woman I wanted to ask to dinner, but I just couldn’t get up the courage to do it. I can still remember that night clearly because it changed my world… right at that instance I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating. Well, after lots of hard work, studying, reading and trying all kinds of silly things, I finally figured it all out. I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I’ve dated bikini models, I’ve dated actresses, and I’ve dated nice, normal, regular next door type of girls as well. It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling… like I don’t know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

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