Mistakes Men Make In The Bedroom

Many men think they know all there is to know about how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom. However, they fail to realise that their repertiore often contains a lot of basic errors and assumptions. All of which can make them a less than satisfying partner.

The reality is that most men figure out sex through ‘on the job training’ or from what they have seen on the blue screen. They discover a new ‘trick’ and try to implement it in their act. Unlike a magician who has the audience’s applause to gauge the success of his performance, few partners will give easily discernible feedback.

Here are a handful of mistakes you might be making.

1. You know what she wants

Men often assume that they know what the girl wants. What do they base this on? The only thing they can base it on- what has worked for them in the past. But they fail to realise that every woman is different.

When men get into bed they often switch on their show- its akin to pressing ‘play’ on the DVD player. The problem is that the audience is not always the same. The performance needs to suit the audience- from the no-strings-attached booty call to the super clingy college student and everything in between.

2. You have all she needs

Most men feel that they have all the moves and equipment to send any woman to the moon. The harsh reality is that some women can’t even commence lift off with anything less than 3,000 rpm. This is something no part of the human pleasuring machine can obtain. If she requests you to use her battery operated friend, you are better off sharing the stage with a side kick than getting boo’d off when your performance fails to impress the crowd.

3. You know your way around the female form

The reality is that many women are unable to climax from without clitoral stimulation. Many men are unaware of this fact. The ‘man in the boat’ is a very important ally that you should become intimately familiar with. Unfortunately for men, each woman is different and the touch that may send one woman into heavenly orbit may be insignificant to another or downright painful. The only way you can find out is to ask.

4. Wet = turned on

Not always a direct relationship. The natural lubrication can change from day to day depending on stress and the phase of the menstrual cycle. She may be dry but rearing to go, or moist but holding a ‘Stop’ sign.

5. Silence is golden.

A lot of guys think they need to be quiet or silent in bed. The reality is that like you, she is there to please her audience as well. A little feedback to let her know what is working for you helps her, and realistically will also work in your favour too.

So here are a few myths demystified. Hopefully now you will be better equipped to improve your craft.

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Happy Dating

Alexa xxx

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alinafarace says:
January 17, 2010 at 16:33

The first and foremost is that pursuing your date compulsively without considering whether the person likes it or not. Women are too awake meeting someone in the free online dating and she is too very careful about it. So she will never give you a response right away. She needs time to think and reach into a decision.
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