Older Men Be Successful With Younger Women

I received a facebook message from a friend who was having trouble meeting younger girls.  He is in his 60’s and is a distinguished older man with a terrific life.  Currently, he doesn’t work, nor does he need to.  Dating older men from a girls perspective it no different.  Obviously, there are times when the age difference can cause a bit of tension between the two parties, but all in all its very acceptable.  So how can older men meet younger women?  Well, its very easy.  It just depends on your approach.  Older men who date younger women spawn some of the greatest relationships around.  Typically, guys are more immature than they think.  Women, whether you like it or not, mature much faster, and reach the stage where they want a relationship much earlier than guys.   Young girls like established men – guys with jobs, and culture.  Read on to find out how older men can be successful with younger women.

- ACTING YOUR AGE: If you look much younger than you are, you should play this up.  Do fun things like going dancing, or something adventurous. Similarly, if you don’t want to those things, don’t – but make sure you do something interesting.  Don’t just take your new date to your local pub for beers with your mates.

- TELL THE TRUTH: Hiding your age is a sure fire way to ge tthe girl running when she finds out.  I know many older men who open their relationships just by openly telling the girl how old they are.  Its useful to make a small joke out of it such as:  You can come on a date with me if you think you can keep up with me, after all, I’m 60 years old…etcetc. If you pretend like you’re 40 when you’re 60, the girl will not stay around long when she finds out the truth.  If its just a fling that you’re after, then there is nothing to worry about.

- WATCH WHAT YOU SAY: Sometimes, if you’ve had a good, long life, you forget where you are.  If you are trying to date younger women, then you need to remember that its probably not a good idea to continue talking about your grandchildren.  Or talking about the time you went to the first elvis concert.  Phrases like this put your age in the forefront, and may intimidate younger girls when they realise that you were making love when they weren’t even born!

- DON’T BE DIRTY: You should always be a gentleman.  Younger women will be attracted to you because you are who you are, and not because you are trying to be someone that you aren’t. Therefore, don’t try to get them into bed the first time you meet them.  You do not want to be portrayed as a dirty old man.

Depending on how old or young the person is, love will triumph.  Don’t let age get in the way of what could be a beautiful relationship. The thing about these kinds of thing is that they are all very specific.  You can apply these principles above to every situation of an older man and a younger woman, but its not all you need.  Every relationship has slightly different nuances, and this will be important when it comes to being successful.  So all you older men, get out there – there are plenty of younger women looking to meet some mature, established gentlemen.

In fact, there is an online dating site specifically setup for younger women to find older men. Unfortunately, its mostly girls on the site, so they are in desperate need of more men.

You can go and sign up there if you like – then let me know what you think: Click here

Go and discuss this on the forum at www.datingdragons.com/forums

Happy dating

Alexa Hartstone

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